Friends. How I love friends.
Sometimes they are just what the doctor ordered. God made friends, and oh how I thank Him for
that precious gift. Whether the friend
comes in the form of a sister, mother, husband or someone else God divinely
places in your life, they are a gift.
Whether they encourage you with a word spoken at just the right time or
if God uses them to challenge you in a way that’s just plain uncomfortable,
they are a treasure. If they get under your skin because of theyway they act or
if they are easy to love, they are in your life for a reason.
Friends to me are simply family in disguise. I believe just as much as God places us in a
family, He also divinely places us with friends. Friends that are, just like family, entrusted
to our care. We are not to take these
for granted. They are precious, just as
family is precious. Just as much as your
children are a gift, so is a friend. As
I once heard it put, blood is thicker than water, but the Spirit is thicker than blood. When God gives us brothers and sisters in the
Lord, they ARE family. They are meant to
be encouraged, loved, and challenged.
They are meant to be close to our hearts and souls. We are meant not only to love blood family
deeply, but also love the family of God deeply as well. People are divinely placed in our lives to
for us to learn from and be a blessing to.
So many times when things get tough between friends we want
to run. We want to give up. After all, they’re not family, so there’s no
real commitment there, right? Can I be
honest with you? I believe friends are
for eternity. When God puts them in your
life we are to be committed to them. We
are to be the best friend we can be.
Sure, you can’t be that way with every person that crosses your path,
but you know which ones play that part in your life. There are people you know are in your life to
bless you, challenge you and to encourage you.
Just like with family, there are some friends that are simply a bit
strange and very difficult to be around.
But without them, our lives would simply be dull.
I have many friends, and what’s great is that every single
one is different. Every one of them
challenges me in a different way. I’m
called to steward these precious people the best way I know how. They are gifts. They might only be in my life for a season,
but they are in my heart forever. God
calls us to be friends with certain people He knows we need. Sometimes it’s not always who we want it to
be, but it is always who is best for us and our growth.
I have learned so much about friendship. Loving someone when you don’t feel or receive
love in return is key. Friendship is
always putting yourself out there. Friendship is always about the other person,
never about you. Friendship is not about
what you can get from someone, but what you can give to them. Friendship is loving someone in spite of
their flaws…and enjoying the differences. Friendship is vulnerability.
Friendship is commitment…even when someone lets you down, you love. After all, that’s what Jesus does,
right? Friendship is giving, receiving,
and always laying down your life for the other.
Friendship is fun. Friendship is
fulfilling. Friendship spurs you to be
closer to the ultimate friend…the perfect friend, Jesus. He’s the friend we all aspire to be
like. The friend who sticks closer than
family. The friend who constantly
pursues even though He is rejected over and over again. The one who gave up His life for us.
How about you? Do you
give up your life for the people God placed in your path? I’m not talking about your kids here, but the
relationships outside of your family…We all give up our lives for our children
to a degree. Do you lay down your time
for a friend in need? Do you lay down
your life for others?
Sounds an awful lot like marriage, doesn't it? It’s NEVER about what we can get. We need to get all we can from Jesus. Be full of His love and acceptance and then
Go out and give. Give love with no
expectations. Love and be grateful for everyone God puts in your life. You never know when they won't be there anymore!
